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It's not easy being a bride, once the honeymoon periods ends, and reality sinks in, it gets difficult to adjust in an entirely new family. You have to leave your old life and habit for the sake of new family, and you aren't even sure whether they will accept you wholeheartedly or not. So, #Wedstreetstyle team thought and jotted out some simple and sweet ways to win your mom-in-law.
#1 Don't judge
Before you start your happily ever after. Do not start judging and stereotyping your new family. Not all mom-in-laws are monter-in-laws. Be open minded and try to sink in rather make your own rules and fight her.
#2 Take Advice
Remember there is no harm in listening to what your mom-in-law tells you, She might be right after all she has quite an experience in handling family. So, learn from her and take advice whenever you can because at the end it's your choice whether you want to follow it or not. Also, remember do not speak in every issue. It's not a nice way to kick start your happily ever after with your mom-in-law.
#3 Respect
No matter what people say, you need to give your in-laws the due respect they deserve, What if your husband doesn't give your mom and dad the respect they deserve. You will surely hate it. So, give what you expect. There will be times when you don't agree with her, but disrespecting her won't solve the problem (in fact it will make the situation worse).
#4 She is your Mom, Too!
Often all the new brides think, that husband's mom is not their own mom, and they try to notice their flaws. Our advice treat her like your own mom, the way you treat your own mom. And never ever compare her with your own. For a happy life this is the key.
#5 Make her feel special!
Make your mom-in-law feel special too. Go out on shopping dates with her, try and establish a bond more of a friends with her. And believe us you won't ever see her bad side. Give her the same love you give your mom.
#6 Encourage her!
Moms around the world sacrifice a lot for their kids, your mom-in-law must have left a hobby to take care of her family. So, encourage her and tell her to live her life the way she always wanted to, as you are here to take care of the rest.
#7 Stay with her
Be with her in her good days and bad days. Show her love and make her believe that you are always going to be there, no matter what happens.