Dear Future Husband, Things I Want You To Know! (Please, take a note)

Dear Future Husband,

My cheeks are red and I am blushing at the thought of writing to you. We are about to tie the knot and ready to make our own world. But, there are things I want you to know, things that are more important than money, big home and expectations. Things every girl wants in their man that they never said. So, here are things I want you to know and keep in mind as we take our vows.

I know we are starting off as a Husband and wife, but I want you as a friend first. I do have plenty of good friends, but I would love to have you as my best friend, to know my secrets and to share my fears. It would be so nice to have you as a best friend first. Life will be lot easier once we become best friends.

Its old school, but I want you to ask my parents - mom and dad both, whenever we go out on dates in our courtship period. Don’t worry they will always say YES!

Yes, there will be times when my emotions will be high; I am coming to live an entirely different life with you at your place, leaving my mom and dad. In return I just want you to be there when I am emotionally high. We are into this together, so don’t leave me at my worse, be there accept me for what I am.

Ok, I know as much as I love shopping, you hate it. Still, I want you to be there and instead of cribbing, give your opinion, when I ask you – this or this.

There is nothing wrong, if we do the household work together. Let’s cook together, clean the house or water the plants because I love it, when you are my helping hand.

Life is not a fairy tale, but we can always make it one. This one will always spice up our romance; whenever we are out just hold my hand.

You like it or not, just give some compliments. Especially, when I have spent hours getting ready, I will love you even more for that. Also, you have the liberty to tell me what you want me to wear for the day.

There are some things I want to get straight, I am bad at managing finances, I have flaws, a lot. But I want you to accept me for what I am. Don’t judge me, because I will never do that.

I want to go on date nights with you after we have babies. I want to keep the love alive, so instead of eating at home, let’s go out often and liven up our days.

We don’t say it often, but we want you to know that our parents our important, too (just like yours). So, give them the respect I give to your parents.